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Resolved Question: Where can I hire a 1920's Bentley for the day as a gift?
Hi, It's my dad-in-laws 65th birthday in October and to make it special we want to find him a 1920's Bentley (his fav car!) to steer. There are many sites that do driving experiences but most are modern sports cars. I have looked high and low but the best I can do is hire a classic 'wedding car' to maybe steer him about a bit :-( If anyone knows where I can find what we are looking for I would be REALLY grateful xx
8 Sep 2011, 12:57 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Wedding car hire in Boston Lincs?
Looking to hire a nice car for my wedding, if anybody knows any companies?
8 Jul 2011, 8:53 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: I'm 18 and I've never had a girlfriend. What mistakes have I done?
OK.... You already know my situation and question, so let me tell you who I REALLY am: I'm currently a high school senior. I'm a nice guy who's more than willing to help anyone out, even though sometimes I can be impatient and hotheaded. I work out nearly everyday and I find myself really silly, even if what I do can embarrass myself, every I want to do is make anyone grin and giggle. I've seen many questions like the one I'm asking right now but let me ask you this: How painful is it when you give someone so much, yet you receive so little? Ever since my freshman year, I've been there for the girls who I thought liked me for who I was. Then tell me that I'm really sweet but they don't want a relationship with me. I've always started out first as a good pal to them, then I would tell them I would always be there for them, no matter what even if I would take a bullet for them. I guess being sweet isn't not enough to earn a girl's heart. What am I doing wrong? Just recently this year, I met someone who I knew from the start she had a big heart. She would always tell me that I am so sweet, even more than her boyfriend who at that time treated her like trash. One day, she asked me if I thought she was a bad person and I told her the best stuff that I thought she would like me. Then two weeks later, she broke up with her trash-giving boyfriend and I thought it would be my chance,however..... she chose someone else. I just felt so miserable that I attempt to commit suicide, which made the girl I liked report it to my guidance counselor. She told me the reason why she had to tell my counselor because she told me cares about me,that she doesn't want me to join the U.S Army as a combat nurse. I just don't know what to believe. How can she care about me if she doesn't even like me? My life sucks so much that I've given up every the things I've wanted to be and that is to be a combat nurse. I think that if I join the army, I would be loved by that special someone because I would die for her from a bullet from a gun or stab from a knife. I guess girls these days take it as a joke. I would rather be a soldier rather than be a priest, which people humiliatingly told me that and say I will never receive married. Just what is wrong with me. My life sucks because no one has hired me for jobs I applied for, because my parents won't let me stay out tardy, and because they won't let me use any of their cars. Why can't I be trusted to do something by myself for once in my life? I'm a catholic and I would pray to god asking him "When will that special someone arrive into my life?" and he would tell me he's working on it.I'm beginning to lose my faith in God, even if people say he has a plan for me. I've waited and worked difficult to receive someone but in the end, I mess up. I even receive jealous of my close friends being in relationships that I would go find a corner and sit & sob. I even didn't even go to my sister's wedding because I know I would receive drunk and I won't receive sober until the next day or two.My sister just doesn't know how I feel, even if she tells me I could receive a girlfriend someday, I just don't feel or believe it. Everyone knows that action speaks louder than words. When a girl says "I adore you" to me, I believe it at first but then she falls in adore with another guy. I believe that if you adore someone, you show her that you do REALLY adore her. I've done that so many times but girls don't look it. Why? I've done so much to show any girl I like that I care and adore them but they don't appreciate everything I've done. I just thought that when you're 18, something good will arrive to you.What am I messing up? What am I missing in my life? I just wish someone who is beautiful with a caring and loving personality will care about me more than anyone, who would be there for me no matter what when I'm mad or unhappy, who would tell me that she is more than grateful to god that she has someone like me in her life, who would trust and believe in me for what I can do, who stand up for me as I stood up for her and most of every, who would say "I adore you" to me and really mean it for who I really am. What can I do?
8 Jan 2012, 11:01 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Vintage Mustang Hire for my wedding?
hey, does anyone know a where I can hire a vintage Mustang? can be with a driver or we can steer it. Im in brisbane and am having alot of trouble finding them thru car hire companies. company or personal would be great! thank you!!!
7 Mar 2011, 9:05 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: wedding hire of a Stretch mini?
Im looking to hire a stretch mini for my wedding in kent as its the only car me and the future wife can decide on, if any one has one please please let me know! i will award best answer! cheers in advance!
7 Mar 2011, 6:44 pm | click here to view more
Voting Question: My 90 day Temp-to-Hire as turned into 8 months, what should I do?
I accepted a 90 day temp to hire position, which I believed was going well. (This is my first "real" job and I don’t have a big base of experience to compare it to.) I didn’t receive a single review, or feedback of any form, until the end of the 90 days. Then I got a terrible review. The employer gave me a second 90 day period. At 30, 60 and 90 days I made a point of requesting a review. At 30 and 60 days I got very good reviews, but at 90 days I received no review. This is at about 6 months. I learned that another temp-to-hire wasn’t offered a permanent job with benefits and salary until a month after their temp-to-hire period had passed. I decided to be patient and wait. (the company I work for is in manufacturing and growing rapidly, so the lady who hired me has erratic and tight deadlines. ) At 7 and a half months, my teeth got bad enough to cause headaches, Im running out of eye contacts and my car is breaking down. So I send her a polite email enquiring about my job status at the company, not whining but mentioning I need to make a few pressing decisions. She went on vacation at 7 months 3 weeks. At the end of 8 months I had to take off for my sisters wedding. I figured I’d let these things pass before enquiring again. I was due back today, but had to grab an appointment at a discounted dental school this morning. I was going to arrive in this afternoon, Wednesday but she told me not to - She gave my work station to an intern for the day. (They took on 3 interns, with only 2 work stations. The third intern has been using a part time employees station.) Her superior is on maternity leave but coming in on Friday to meet with the owner. I’m concerned that she is going to finally let me go tomorrow, Thursday, before her superior comes back in. Additional Info: The company I’m designing for has 5 brands and thousands of products, but i only received comprehensive training on their primary product. If I ask a question I receive an annoyed or condescending response, a response suggesting I should know this already. If I don’t ask a question I receive snapped at for not asking questions (but I’ve gotten gun shy about asking, no time is ever a good time to ask.) Im having a very difficult time fitting into the office and not showing disdain for my middle managers (The art director who hired me and her senior designer) as they spend a lot of time out of the office, take extended lunches for fun, are up and chatting a lot, and mostly because they Gossip about the office in the middle of the office. The job is interesting and challenging, the pay is fair, and everyone else in the company (that I’ve met) seem to be great…. Except the few I work the closest with and who are determining my employment. I cant help but feel I’m being taken advantage of because of my inexperience. Being an artist/designer, it would be very easy for this company to hire “Temp-to-Hires” to receive artwork from them, then let them go because they’re “not a good fit” but then possess the rights to some great artwork for cheaper than purchasing or licensing. I feel they’re doing this with the interns who are doing nothing but making concepts and artwork. I’m talented and difficult working, and beyond this explanation I cant figure out why she hasn’t given me a decision yet. So… Should I press for a decision about my status? Should I just hold out and look what happens? Should I put in my two weeks? What would you do? If they flame me, do they owe me anything for this extended employment beyond a temp period? I feel like they owe me something. We had a deal that I would go salary with higher pay and benefits at the end of 90 days or they'd let me go. She's broken this deal twice. I wasn't hired through a temp agency. This isnt a temp job, it's a temp-to-hire. It was my understanding that in this case the temp period was...temporary. clayjar_azn, Im sorry you feel Im being a prima donna. I feel a deal that has been made has been broken twice. I've heard of people getting severence pay and unemployment after being fired, on specific grounds. Being inexperienced, Im wondering if this may be one of those situations. Seeing as how Im being strung along, I'm wondering if there are grounds for demanding the pay lift that was promised to me at the end of the first 90 days were the company to keep me around. They kept me on, but as a temp... why wouldnt they just let me go instead of breaking their deal? Hey Sherry, there is a remote chance I could go into another department. Its unlikely, as the two people Im having the most trouble with have been with the company for over a decade and its still a relatively tight nit company ... they hold a lot of sway. It is worth enquiring though... but at what point do I as for a department change? and how?
6 Jul 2011, 3:26 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Where should we go & what should we do this weekend for our wedding anniversary?
It's our 17th anniversary this weekend and we have a babysitter from Saturday morning at 10ish through to Sunday about tea time. We're in West Yorkshire and glad to travel but probably don't want to waste too much time travelling. Have use of a car, public transport and glad to hire bikes - mind you, maybe not the weather - the forecast sadly is for light rain Saturday and heavy rain Sunday. We're open to anything. Any ideas? Just to add, we've been married 17 years and done every the usual stuff, so looking for something different - the more unusual, quirky, offbeat the better! We live in Leeds but can travel within reason.
5 May 2011, 5:30 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Unique car rental/hire in Calgary?
Does anyone know of any unique car rental companies in Calgary? I've tried a few places that you can hire a vintage Rolls or Bentley but they are every about $800 for 3 hours, which is insane. So we're looking for any vintage or unique cars you can rent for a day or hire for a few hours for our wedding. We were interested in premium cars, vintage cars, or neat little cars like a mini cooper, etc. thanks!
5 Jul 2011, 6:35 pm | click here to view more
Open Question: What Do You Think Of My Stand-Up lines?
Hello everybody! Most comedians will start the show by saying Hows everybody doing! followed by asking everybody if their ready to giggle or something like that. I always think to myself the people that scream Yes! must be darn optimistic, not like me of course. I actually attempted to create comedy insurance, that way I could receive get my money back after watching a show that felt more like a wedding. Im not a big fan of weddings, they just remind me how lonely I am. that's why I spend most my time internet dating, I do most of that on twitter. I followed a girl once, it ended with me getting a restraining order. I have a few other tricks up my sleeve, I sometimes carry a cane around with me, it makes me look like doctor home. This lets me walk into hospitals and say to the women there, ''hey, im a gynecologist'' of course im not qualified to do this, and I suspect this resulted in quite a few unexpected deaths. I needed therapy as a child, apparently I have a repressed memory. They say I murdered a therapist. I also tried to do a stand up show recently, but apparently you can only have two people on jail visitation days. Im writing my possess self-help book. I discovered how to receive wealthy quick using only three items, a gun, a balaclava and a quick car. When I was young, I was quite the history buff, me and my friends would do role play games, our favourite was FRENCH MILITARY. Well I think it was our favourite, I would ask them but obviously they every died. We actually had to hire a sweatshop to sow us enough white flags. My favourite board game is monopoly, I actually hate playing it, but the money works great on the old people at supermarkets. So... thank you for reading, I understand this was probably quite bad, but it is my first try. thank you.
5 Feb 2012, 4:54 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: My First Stand-Up Lines?
Hello everybody! Most comedians will start the show by saying Hows everybody doing! followed by asking everybody if their ready to giggle or something like that. I always think to myself the people that scream Yes! must be darn optimistic, not like me of course. I actually attempted to create comedy insurance, that way I could receive get my money back after watching a show that felt more like a wedding. Im not a big fan of weddings, they just remind me how lonely I am. that's why I spend most my time internet dating, I do most of that on twitter. I followed a girl once, it ended with me getting a restraining order. I have a few other tricks up my sleeve, I sometimes carry a cane around with me, it makes me look like doctor home. This lets me walk into hospitals and say to the women there, ''hey, im a gynecologist'' of course im not qualified to do this, and I suspect this resulted in quite a few unexpected deaths. I needed therapy as a child, apparently I have a repressed memory. They say I murdered a therapist. I also tried to do a stand up show recently, but apparently you can only have two people on jail visitation days. Im writing my possess self-help book. I discovered how to receive wealthy quick using only three items, a gun, a balaclava and a quick car. When I was young, I was quite the history buff, me and my friends would do role play games, our favourite was FRENCH MILITARY. Well I think it was our favourite, I would ask them but obviously they every died. We actually had to hire a sweatshop to sow us enough white flags. My favourite board game is monopoly, I actually hate playing it, but the money works great on the old people at supermarkets. So... thank you for reading, I understand this was probably quite bad, but it is my first try. thank you.
5 Feb 2012, 4:47 pm | click here to view more
Open Question: How does my plans for the future sound?
Hello right now I'm am sixteen years old, I dropped out of high school. Well not really I dropped out and I am currently being home schooled through the American School of Correspondence. Because the high school I was at was really ghetto and I really wasn't making any friends. Sure I do regret my decision now but I mean life is full of mistakes and the only thing you could do is fix them and carry on. I just really would like the chance to socialize again but I mean at that school it seemed like no one really wanted to be bothered and people were already set in their clicks. And I don't know if you guys know it or not but most ghetto people aren't the most friendly.Im going to receive a job soon I've been really searching for one. And keep up for a car like any other teenagers dream.I plan to finish my homeschool and go to Triton College. Its a community college but it isn't bad. I don't really look the point of getting thousands of dollars in loans, just to go to a college I don't really need. And having to pay them back for the next twenty years. After I'm 18 I will search for a job with comcast they pay 17 bucks an hire right off the bat and a few family members work there. While I'm still in college, I will keep up for my restaurant, because the only thing I need to pay for is gas and cell phone and rent for my mom. Which is a lot cheaper than trying to be every independent and getting an apartment, when I could keep money. And I will be able to receive financial aid that will cover every the the college expenses. Because thats what my sister does. After I leave college I will still work at comcast. I will open my restaurant and with the money I saved. I will work both jobs at the same time.And also do weddings on the side where I do photography. Which is a good 800 bucks each wedding. And the relax is history hopefully receive married have kids move downtown buy a home. So how does it sound I have other goals but this is the most realistic like wanting to be an actor but I know the chances are very slim so I won't bother.
5 Feb 2012, 12:37 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: I had a dream of being..?
I had a dream that i was going to a wedding n pal forgave me to go to wedding (in reality she has no bf) we left resturant in nyc. N went into car.. well limo I was in the back her driver her fiance n her other female pal in front. They got out. So I jumped out to. They hopped in a car with door open but no room for me.. so I walked away... N they didn't care. Had to hire cab.... Does this really mean anything.?
5 Dec 2011, 7:50 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Problems with the wife: How to deal with anger/ bringing up issues?
WARNING! A lot of this writing simply explains my situation in detail, the "gist of it" will be below. While I use the term "Wife", we are currently engaged, but not married. We have been living together for about two and a half years, and have known each other for perhaps six or seven as friends. Currently there is a good bit of stress due to our financial situation and of course, the current economy; I go to college full time earning a degree in computer science, so finding a lucrative albiet reasonable job in the area has proven extremely difficult, though we are making ends meet and living well enough with my housing allowance from the MGIB. She is unemployed and generally stays around home doing some of the chores or messing about on WoW or myspace, finding employment for her has been especially difficult due to the fact that she is deaf. While she had been able to receive set up for a job through voc-rehab in the past, she refuses to do so again due to how the job ended (Her boss becoming verbally abusive and eventually being laid off due to "lack of work" while the business is clearly still going and they ended up hiring someone else). I would believe this is the cause for most of our stress (Economic situation and hardly any time apart) but ultimately that's not what I'm asking about. She gets about 600$ or so from SSI due to her disability, and thus far we have generally been fair in both paying for about half of everything in regards to bills, though I steer her around and when we go out to eat, I usually pay (Though she does her share at times) considering I have a little bit more cash. So we generally keep things even and fair. Recently however, she has been preparing for her sister's wedding, which will occur on a cruise. Not having much money, I happily helped her pay for plane tickets and her passport. She also is having trouble getting her "new" car registered, and I have helped on that as well. But this morning she asked if I would mind only getting $200 dollars instead of $300 (her half) for rent this month, which she has not yet paid me (She usually does immediately after I pay rent on the first). I didn't mind (I legitimately know what the money is being used for and went with her to pay for these various things) but it just struck me how instead of looking for a job to receive the money for these things, she has taken to just asking me for my money. She has looked for jobs now and then, but she has been very picky on what she will apply for, stating "I'm content living on $600 a month." and being extremely frustrated with so much rejection, some of which is likely attributed to her disability. When I brought up my concerns (It seems like she is using me rather than getting a job) she got extremely upset and has been in a foul mood every day, ignoring me as best she can and sulking around the apartment. While she may have less empathy than some, she is not an unkind person. I figure it is quite possible she is mad more about her situation when it comes to employment than at me, but regardless I brought it up, so I'm getting "punished". THE GIST OF IT: I feel like I'm walking on eggshells sometimes when I need to bring up the delicate subject of her getting a job and our finances. I really think it would help her out quite a bit not only in terms of getting money, but getting out of the home. Not to mention any other number of subjects. I know women don't want a simpering sycophant for a husband, despite how forcefully some will attempt to bludgeon him into the role. You can't always agree with her if she's wrong or misguided just because she might take offense, and you can't always let her have her way if she's hurting you, your relationship, or even herself. But she is especially difficult to drag out of a dark mood and largely unforgiving. A simple off comment in the morning will ruin her entire day, likely because she has little else to think about. When she's mad, she prefers not to talk (as I can usually brighten her mood if she will just hear) and to be alone, but then every her brooding just seems to make her even more mad! (THE TL: DR) She prefers to be left alone, but that only seems to make it worse. Alternatively talking it out usually helps her, but she tends to ignore me if she's mad! Any ideas!?!?
5 Aug 2011, 4:32 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Where can I hire a bentley blower as a wedding car?
My partner and I are getting married in August and he would dearly adore to have a bentley blower take him to the church and then us onto the reception. Having scoured the internet I can't find one for hire anywhere but did find a wedding photo of a couple in kent who had one! I live in wish that someone somewhere knows where I can hire one! Please help, thanks!
4 Sep 2011, 2:46 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Should I take my wedding photographer to court?
I need some advice please on what action take: I received my wedding pictures, and I paid 2000 dollars plus for them. I could not cease crying. This is what the photographer left out: Shot of Maid of honor - sisters - relatives together at the home Bride with her dad - still shot, Very Important. Groom with best man before the wedding Groom with dad and mom before the wedding dad and mom presenting their daughter to the groom Bride with blossom girl Bride with ring bearer and blossom girl Bride with a maid of honor Bride with her attendants Bride with groomsmen Groom and Groomsmen Groom with Brides attendants Groom with best man Nick and his parents Nick and the groomsmen Nick and the bridesmaids Christina and the bridesmaids Christina and her parents alone which didn't involve my dad looking at my mum (there is only one photography and that's by the car) there should be several. My parents together alone portrait still shot My parents individually portrait still shot Nicks parents individually portrait still shot Family photos where a professional photographer will ask every family on brides side family photos where a photographer would ask, every family of grooms side There are no photos whatsoever of my brother, my dad and me, or my mom. It is disgusting considering my photographer knew them has he met them twice before. He now wants me to pay for a fake wedding on the 17th so we can do photos again, even though it was his fault. I have to pay for my hair, mums hair, tan, dads suit hire, my plane ticket to fly back, hire the venue again which is Hampton court palace, so not cheap and I said this is ridiculous, he thinks it's goodwill gesture. Before anyone asks, I did tell him to take pictures traditionally of everyone. So he really has no excuse. I asked for my some discount or even my money back and he is refusing too. Please help. Thank you. He also promised me 1000 photos and instead says he doesn't have any now and has only given me 400. I also have photos that have half clip people in it, like my mom is half clip in the dinner photo. This man was paid well and it's disgusting how I am being treated. Fizzy stuff, if you are married and had a wedding with tons of people, you will look that you are completely distracted by everything that's why you pay for a photographer or any supplier to do their job and INSTRUCT on the day and yes I did give him a list. And even if you don't, photographers should know standard photos!!
3 Oct 2011, 8:24 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Is it ok to drive to Mauna Kea and the volcanoes?
We would like to know if it is better to hire a car or go on organised tours to look the volcaoes and Mauna Kea. There are three of us...We are only staying on the Big Island 2 nights.We are arriving early Monday morning and departing tardy Wed evening.Do we have time to look both.Any assistaance would be appreciated.
3 Dec 2011, 4:23 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Why is my fiance so clueless and lazy?!?
Am I going crazy? It sure feels like it. We are leaving on Saturday (really early Saturday morning) for our destination wedding in Cuba. My Fiance took every this week off. I like to say he is lazy, but he swears he has a million things to do (well yeah, so do I…but I also have to work). Granted his job allows much more paid vacation days – I would take them if I could receive them, but I can’t. My boss is a slave driver. I asked him to do ONE thing this week and that was to write the thank you cards that I will be putting in the guests rooms upon arrival in Cuba. He moaned and groaned about it, saying he has a ton of things to do (like write his speech, picking up the groomsmen’s gifts, hemming his pants…..every of which could have been done months ago, but still regardless, should take no longer than a morning). He has THREE FULL DAYS. I have two evenings left and I work 12 hour days. We also just had an at home reception in which I did every the prep – from food to dropping the tables, clothing the tables, cleaning up etc etc etc. He maybe took out the trash once and the relax of the time just relaxed and enjoyed himself. I don’t understand why he doesn’t look every these people working around him and he’s sitting on his ass. We have had multiple arguments about this in the past (when we painted our apartment, when we moved and had to unpack etc. He loves to “sit around”). I call it plain laziness. His solution is always to hire someone to do the work. I’m not sure when he found out we are loaded, but I certainly don’t ever remember coming into big amounts of cash. We have been sharing one car this week (he usually has a work car) and because I am working I need the car to receive to work. I also have been doing wedding errands on my lunch break and after work which I need the car for. He has been whining for a week about how he needs to go and receive a cap for the trip and needs the car to go and receive it. ???!?!?!?!? we have busses in our city….lots of them, that run on a REGULAR basis. He even gets on for FREE as he is a police officer! I gave him the car every day yesterday to do several errands and every he got done was the groomsmen’s gifts (which he already knew what he was getting. every he had to do was show up and pay for them). I offered to drop the car off after an appointment I had this morning so he could go and buy a cap (which should take every of about 30 minutes…..but I’m sure he would stretch out to a day and a half). He said ok. I asked him to be ready on time as I needed to be at work. When I walked into the home, I heard “I’m just putting on my pants” and when I looked down the hall into the bedroom, every blinds were closed, he wasn’t even up. I’m fed up. He’s a lazy sod. The only reason he usually puts in the effort is because he knows he’s going to receive yelled at. I end up ironing his shirts, doing his errands – I do everything, because he is a 4 year old child. The home has been a mess for days and he has every week off. I really don’t know what to do anymore. Not only that, after every this work I have put in to this wedding…..he starts to try and receive involved last minute. Changing things around, groaning about some of the decisions I had to make on my possess because he was either sleeping in, or not interested in making the effort to be involved at the time. I really don’t know what to do anymore. I feel like a mom and I don’t want a kid and now I’m stuck with him. Are every men like this? Because the more men I talk to, it sure sounds like they are…in which case, I think I’m just better off growing old on my possess. Seriously. Bridezilla because my fiance is a lazy sod? I don't have a problem with any of the vendors...just him. I'm not a drama creator. I'm a really laid back and mellow person...It's just every coming to a head and it's frustrating when you try to do every this stuff for people and they just sit back and watch you do it... Lots of people have at home receptions before or after a destination wedding, and it was "hosted" by my parents anyway...so we wouldn't have had a choice to opt out. Not only that, he screwed up at the reception and got told off at the end of the night. Part of every this is that my parents now think he is a loser too because he got yelled at for his lack of contribution.
3 Aug 2011, 2:25 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Baby shower advice- your experience?
This summer I wish to host a couples shower at my home, though I feel silly hosting my possess baby shower. I don't think it's considered gauche like a bride hosting her possess bridal shower though, is it? We have a few friends who have had this type of shower in the past year or so and but I would have to dig out the invitations to look who hosted it. We haven't been able to have a big party or BBQ at our home so we want to receive everyone together with their kids for that reason too. The other thing is that I took my wedding guest list and there were really very few people I wouldn't invite to the baby shower! At our wedding we had 100 and for the shower I have a list of about 130 including kids. I think that's ridiculous and I can't have that many people at my home because there's nowhere to park cars. Also I don't want to hire a caterer, but the other option I'm faced with is having a friends shower first and a family shower later, and I always thought it was a little over the top for people to have two showers. I haven't consulted my mom on the guest list though, she may want to remove some friends and family who more than an hour away. What's the protocol on this nice of thing?
29 Mar 2011, 1:23 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Are these signs that deep down he dosen't want to marry me?
1. I've being dating an Italian guy for about 7 years, we have lived together since almost day one. We lived in the USA for a couple of years, our visas were ending and one solution discussed was getting married, my boyfriend who was 22 and I was 27 at the time said a flat no to the solicitors suggestion. 2. He has never asked me, he asked me once when he was very drunk at a music festival on a hillside, I laughed and said yes one day, I didn't look it as a serious discussion. No rings, he hadn't approached our families ect. 3. He is meant to be getting a visa to go to the USA, in case this is denied we have being told not to receive married by his family, as that way he can at least receive married to an American pal and move over that way. 4. We argue about him not asking me, he says he wants to, but he never goes and makes the formal arrangements, or produces the ring. 5. Most of our friends weddings cost 5-20,000K I'm really glad to be at the cheaper end of the scale, however he suggested that we just hire out a community hall and some food from the take out. Bearing in mind we are both professional entertainers and have a big entertainments company with many contacts we could do a very good wedding very cheap, due to good business contacts and secondly it would reflect very badly on our business to have a such a cheap wedding for ourselves, I also dont think he wants to spend the money, even through we have the money to spend and already have a home and two cars. 6. His family often make remarks to me, telling me to not receive pregnant or married to him, as I would spoil his chances of going to America.
29 Jan 2012, 5:43 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Is this a scammed. i replied to an ad about a job?
i replied to an ad on craigslist about a job. Hello >> I have received your resume message which is quite okay by me. My >> Sister will be coming from (Kahului, Hawaii) and she will be moving >> on 10th of December 2011. she is 42 Years of age. 140lbs and 5.8ft. >> She speaks English fluently.We really need you to be honest and trust >> worthy in this Position. The work basis/duties are below.- You are to >> be checking on My Sister at least 4 times in a week for proper caring >> and to know how well about her health and i think you have little >> medical experience ? >> >> - You will be earning $400 weekly handling this job properly. >> - You will be driving her to hospital when she is needed for medical >> check up which should be at least once in a month and if you don't >> know how to steer, you will hire a car for her. >> >> -- Your working days will be Mon,Wed, Friday and saturday.You will >> have to prescribe the convenient hours during each of this days which >> will not affect your other regular work in case you have one as this >> will be a part time work for you and if you want to live with her in >> the home for other assistance there will be no problem.So kindly >> provide me with the requested information below so that we can ensure >> the housing agent receive her an apartment which will be more closer to >> your home and I wish about 6 miles will not be too far for you.Also >> we will be paying you the first week wages upfront via a Certified >> Check because you will help her to receive some medical tools like one >> touch basic machine,acu-check machine and test trips in any nearest >> pharmacy store around. So I want you to feed me back with the >> following details so that we can ensure you are ready for the work. >> >> 1. Full Name >> 2. Mailing Address, >> 3. City >> 4. State and Zip Code >> 5. Phone Number >> 6.Age, Sex and marital status. >> >> I will give you her living address once the rental agent find her a >> suitable home. Will be awaiting your email soonest and we can proceed >> as you can understand that the date is getting approach. >> Thanks. I gave her the info she needed. she wrote this back I am very glad to receive your contact details.i have forward it to our home agent and i will send to you the upfront payment and receive back to you with Ups/fedex tracking number. Hello i just have a quick question i have read your ads on is the job >> > you >> > are posting only a part time job? i ask it because my mom might be >> > interested. thank you and have a nice day. >> >
27 Nov 2011, 9:22 pm | click here to view more
Voting Question: Worried/Feeling Guilty - What would YOU think of this situation?
Hi. Quick version. Sorry for sloppy question, Im not feeling well. I was recently hired by a good company/good job. I started last Monday. Wednesday my 2 year old came down with the flu. That eliminated my childcare options bc no one wants to allow the flu bug in their home, around their kids. I had no choice but to "call in". Note - my husband already took that Mon and Tue to help me transition, he HAD to go in. Next day, shes still very sick. I call again, praying new boss doesn't flip. Hes VERY understanding, says to take the relax of the week off and start fresh Monday (just a few days ago). That's what I did, worked Mon and Tue (this week), strong. Came home Tue with the worst headache Ive ever known. Within a few hours, it was clear I too now had the flu. I ended up in the ER about 1am Wed morning. Worse....I once again had to contact my boss and report Id not be in (oh. my. God! right!!). Hes out of the country right now on biz, 6 hour time difference. I sent an email (which goes to his phone and is how we communicated last time), didn't hear back from him. I worked with my assistant every day, via phone/email, while in the hospital. I really did plan to go in today. I wake up, and sick keep you the details, but suffice to say Im still dealing with "flu symptoms". I feel terrible, don't know which is worse, the flu or disappointing new boss again, and again! My husband said he woulda fired me by now :O( How would you feel if you were my boss? Just looking for perspective. I can provide doctor/hospital notes for both my daughter and myself. I dont think he would believe Im lying, just think hes "sleepy of it". I would be too, cant blame him. On the other hand, Im NOT faking sick. So what do I do? Also, note, my asst. told me another employee, 2 offices down, called in with the flu yesterday morning as well. I dont know if she came in today or not. But the bug is def. in that building. I fear I could receive sicker by being in that environment before healing up most of the way, as opposed to resting one more day and returning like a new person. I am also protecting my coworkers. Theres a chance the other person caught it from me. Everyone knows my daughter was the first "reported" case - so its fair to link her to me, then me to my co-worker. Im trying to think how I would feel if I switched roles with my boss. But, I cant. Im so sick I know I cant go in, he doesn't. Ive also thought I should possibly go in, show my face at least, scrub down my office with lysol wipes, then leave. The problem with that 1. I can just do that tomorrow, and 2. I have an hour and a half steer to work, that's 3 hours in the car, back to back, and Ive been running to the restroom in much more frequent intervals. Plz you guys, tell me how you would FEEL if you were my supervisor, and what would you DO if you were me? Thank you!!! PS - the guilt/anxiety is gift bc I hate to let people down, and I very rarely do. Im never sick, I never miss work. This situation is unbelievable in my mind. And Im so new, this guy doesnt know me at every, hes likely fed up and now thinks my attendance will be an on-going problem. :o(
26 Jan 2012, 7:49 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: I need help with putting these paragraphs in my own words?
I need to put these paragraphs into my possess words and maybe shrink them to like only 2-3 paragraphs (tiny paragraphs like 4 lines each) Have you always insisted on being the one to take family photos, or do you find yourself spending a lot of time setting up that perfect holiday snap? If so, you may want to consider a career in photography. Photographers create images that tell stories, paint pictures, or record events. To succeed in this highly competitive field, you need to be able to master both the artistic and the technical aspects of the job. Photographers use either traditional cameras that record images on film that is then developed into prints, or digital cameras that electronically record images that can then be downloaded to a computer and printed. Those who use traditional cameras may also develop their possess film, which is a complicated process involving a darkroom and treating the film or prints in a series of chemical and water baths. Before they can take a picture, photographers have to make many technical decisions. First they must decide what equipment will be needed to best shoot their subject. They pick the appropriate cameras, lenses, filters, film stocks, and lighting equipment. If they have to rely on natural light, as nature photographers and photojournalist often do, this usually means positioning themselves in the right place to receive the best effect with the light available, or waiting until the light is just right. When they are ready to take the picture, photographers pick what angle to shoot from, how close to receive to the subject, and how to frame the shot. Other things they need to think about, and adjust accordingly while shooting, include the different camera settings, shutter speeds, and aperture widths. Each of these decisions is made in such a way so as to give the picture a certain atmosphere, mood, or concept. During big, well-financed photo shoots, photographers may rely on whole crews of lighting technicians, models, makeup artists, and wardrobe experts to help receive the desired “look.” In addition to using different photography techniques to create the desired look, photographers can manipulate the pictures after they’ve been taken. Using computer software, digitized versions of the photographs can be significantly altered to make them look the way the photographer wants them to. There are many different kinds of photographers, each requiring a slightly different set of skills. Portrait photographers take pictures of families, babies, wedding parties, and graduating students. Fashion or beauty photographers take provocative, atmospheric photos for advertisements on billboards or in magazines. Photojournalists capture newsworthy people and events, in effect telling stories with their pictures. Other types of photographers include commercial photographers, who take pictures of cars, computers, food, and other items for catalogues or advertisements. Scientific photographers use high-powered lenses to reveal things, such as cells or molecules, which the human eye alone can’t normally look. Fine art photographers sell their photographs as art pieces, and may pick to focus on just about any subject matter that inspires them. There are also photographers who specialize in nature or travel photography. Many photographers possess their possess businesses. In addition to taking the photographs, business owners have to arrange for advertising, schedule appointments, and sometimes mount and frame pictures. They also purchase supplies, keep records, bill customers, and may hire and train employees.
25 Apr 2011, 1:26 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Cheap wedding under £3000-£2000?
Me and my partner are to be married next year and practicly had evrything organised i just had to pay a deposit for it although the venue is cheap the meal is taking half my buget away! So we are struggling to arrive up with funds for a photographer, cake, decor, flowers and hire a car for my partner, we can keep the money for but my partner is now expecting our first child wich i am now thinking of putting the wedding on hold!!! Some one help please we really want to tie the knot next year. Thanks
24 Feb 2011, 5:59 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: does this ad for a job sound suspicious?? opinions please ~?
i was on craigslist looking for a job and i came across this ad and i responded to it, im worried about the obvious inconsistencies need a caregiver for my lovely sister, 25 year old wheelchair user to help him with his morning routine, Monday-Friday at 7 am. It's a pretty basic routine, involving compression garments, range of motion and transfer into the wheelchair. Occasional bed baths and hair washes also part of the routine. We pay $600 weekly and it should not take longer than 30-40 minutes to complete. Great for a WCC student who wants to pick up a regular part time job before class. Respond via email with interest, qualifications and references. Thanks. so i replied and this is what they said Good Morning Applicant , I have received your resume message which is quite okay by me. My Sister will be coming from ( San Francisco, CA) and she will be moving on 5th of may 2011. she is 22 Years of age. 140lbs and 5.8ft. She speaks English fluently.We really need you to be honest and trust worthy in this Position. The work basis/duties are below. - You are to be checking on My Sister at least 4 times in a week for proper caring and to know how well about her health and i think you have little medical experience ? - You will be earning $700 weekly handling this job properly. - You will be driving her to hospital when she is needed for medical check up which should be at least once in a month and if you don't know how to steer, you will hire a car for her. -- Your working days will be Mon,Wed, Friday and Saturday.You will have to prescribe the convenient hrs during each of this days which will not affect your other regular work incase you have one as this will be a part time work for you and if you want to live with her in the home for other assistance there will be no problem. So kindly provide me with the requested information below so that we can ensure the housing agent receive her an apartment which will be more closer to your home and I wish about 6 miles will not be too far for you. Also we will be paying you the first week wages upfront via a Certified Check because you will help her to receive some medical tools like one touch basic machine,acu-check machine and test trips in any nearest pharmacy store around. So I want you to feed me back with the following details so that we can ensure you are ready for the work. 1. Full Name 2. Mailing Address, 3. City 4. State and Zip Code 5. Phone Number 6.Age, Sex and marital status. I will give you her living address once the rental agent find her a suitable home. Will be awaiting your email soonest and we can proceed as you can understand that the date is getting approach. Thanks. if i do this job will i receive murdered?
24 Apr 2011, 1:38 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: My mother in law is insane (seriously. Help)?
OK. So, my mom in law is crazy. She refused to arrive to our wedding because she was not going to be the middle of attention. When my son was born, she came out to look him/meet me and spent the entire time re-washing every of the dishes in my cabinet and insisting that God was going to take my baby son as a punishment to my husband for neglecting his mom. The real problems started when I was pregnant with my daughter. Out of the blue one day she sent me a text message saying that I had no business having kids and I must have bewitched my husband with crazy voodoo (I'm Catholic) to receive him to agree to have kids with me, and that she was going to call CPS and have my son removed from my dirty home and then was going to make sure that I "never had the other child". I told my husband that she was banned from my home. He speaks to her occasionally, but is as sleepy of her craziness as I am. Now, one year later, my husband has had a few medical problems, and the problems with my mom in law have started every over again. She calls me constantly in the middle of the night and leaves me messages that say that I have no business raising kids and that I have ruined her son. She says that she "has prayed and God has blessed" and that she knows that I can "no longer be in control". The next day she acts as though nothing has happened. She has threatened to steer to my home from hers across the country with some of her relatives and a baseball bat to "take care of me" and take the kids and my husband back with her to her home. She recently said that she was getting in the car with a gun and would look me soon. Two days later she called and left me a message apologizing for anything hurtful she might have said. I have called the police and I have a restraining order. I am moving in a month to a new apartment (that she will never have the address to) and I have changed my number. I am scared of this lady and I have no idea how to receive her to cease. I doubt that I can. I just want to know what I can do until I move to feel more secure. This morning as I was taking my kids to my mom's for the day there was a odd man watching the apartment, and I just got chills thinking that she had hired someone to watch us. What can I do?
23 Dec 2011, 6:56 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Weighing my options - could use a little input?
A couple of weeks ago, we had a brand new Lowe's open up about 20 minutes from here. Several of my husband's family members have applied, and 3 of them have been hired. It was brought to my attention earlier this week by one of those family members, that they are still looking to fill about 30 positions. At first I was excited - right now I'm making minimum wage, part time with no benefits. Then I started thinking about it more. Although my job as a cashier only pays minimum wage ($7.25/hr - NY State), I am able to take time off whenever I need/want to. I was able to take a week off this year for my wedding, and still be able to go on our yearly vacation just 4 months later. There's no set sick time either, so if I'm too sick to work, it's no issue. It's also very close to home - within walking distance. This has been especially handy this year, as my husband and I were sharing a car, and he worked much further out. I've worked there for just over 2 years now, and am very comfortable with my job/coworkers/surrounding area. I was told that Lowe's (supposedly) was starting out around $9.70/hr full time. They offer benefits, paid holidays, and accrued vacation time. However, this means a 20 min steer each way for me - and winter is on it's way. In the past, I have typically avoided going to town altogether when the roads are bad, and I worry what situation I might be put in if I couldn't make it in for any reason. Not to mention, the cost of gas. So, I have a bit of a predicament. I don't want to leave a job that I KNOW is going to be there, and has so many perks, but I also can't continue this type of work for minimum wage. There are girls I work with who've been there much longer than me, and still make below $8/hr. My husband and I both need benefits badly, and although he is starting a new job Monday that offers benefits, it's going to be at least 6 months or so before we can receive into that too much. I don't know what to do. We could certainly use the extra pay, but I guess I am afraid of being outside of my comfort zone. This job is the only one I've had since I moved to NY 5 years ago, and before that, every I had was a min wage job through a high school program. If anyone has any good/bad experiences with Lowe's, or has any input at every on this, I would greatly appreciate it! =] "Flock" to the new store?! Are you kidding me? Two of them have been without work for 2 years, and my mom in law just had bladder surgery, and her thyroid removed. She hasn't worked for a year and a half. They need jobs, period. I am not "flocking" anywhere - I am looking at my options as they are and trying to sort what is best for my husband and I in our situation.
22 Oct 2011, 9:28 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: How much is a car service in NYC?
I am getting married in NYC and wanted to hire a car service to receive me to and from my wedding destination, cocktail bar and then finally to the restaurant. I will want a car service to take me, the groom, my mum, sister and brother. Does anyone know a rough cost, recommend anyone etc....
22 May 2011, 12:51 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Car Hire in London...?
Me and my fiance are off to a friends wedding this weekend, and as every the trains are messed up (as usual!) we've been thinking about hiring a car to steer there and back. The only problem is, is that he's the one with the license and thus driving, and I'm the one with the debit card! I've only looked up a few places, and they every state that the driver and the card owner have to be the same person, are there any companies in London (East preferably) that do not operate like that?
21 Mar 2011, 8:58 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: I'm disappointed by my wedding day?
Hello, I'm still upset about my wedding day and i want to receive over it. I'm from an other country but i live in USA. I decided to have our wedding in my country my husband is american he thought it was a good idea. I was sure my family will help me. My dad said i would not help but paid for a big part of it and his wife my step mom is a huge b... I have a my family so big deal. I got pregnant so my dress was not that cute anymore :( and i finally organized everything by myself. I came back one week before the wedding because i could not arrive before. But i had a lot of to do every day even at the last minute. My family did nothing but my friends try to help at the end. I organized it well but i didn't take car of myself. I hired someone to do my hair and my make up but i was not glad with the result and worst i didn't have a manicure. I'm still very upset because when people sent my pictures i felt so ugly and neglected. every my family and friends adore the wedding at least. Did you have similar experience? How i can receive over it?
2 Dec 2011, 11:20 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Help,I might be depressed...Can i have some advice?
I think I might be depressed but no one is doing anything about it... Here's a bit of my background... My parents got divorced when i was in first grade and we had to move. I always went from one home to another till in 3rd grade, my dad moved back to Africa. I barley look him now but I talk to him on the phone a lot. Then my mom met someone and I really didn't like him. He got me mad, pushed my buttons, and sometimes made me sob. Then they got married and didn't tell me about till after the wedding and showed me a video of the wedding. I was so mad and unhappy. Then after I finished 4th grade we moved to California, where he came from, and my mom would usually say 'I don't know if we're moving' till about 1 month before we moved. I've always been a shy, silent, and collected child so I had a difficult time making friends. I've been here for a couple of years now and still have about 10 friends. My step-dad still annoys me and makes me sob and he is always bossing me around and making up strict rules like I can't watch the TV in the living room anymore because I didn't let him watch TV in the hotel room we every were in. I also feel like I'm not part of the family. Usually when I'm with my mom and step-dad, like during dinner or in the car, she always talks to him instead of me. When I try to spark up a conversation with them, he brings something different up and they start talking about it together in a different language that I don't know. Sometimes if I'm talking to her and he interrupts with something else, she'll forget about our conversation and start a new one with him. I also feel like I can't trust her because I remember when I was about 4 or 5 I told her something embarrassing and told her not to tell anyone, I heard her telling 5 of my aunts at the party we went to later that afternoon, and they started to giggle as I walked over to greet them. She also shares many personal things about me with my step-dad, and than I know she's told him because she usually remembers it when I'm around. Symptoms I have: I'm usually feeling sleepy every day, even when I don't do a thing. I sob whole lot more than I used to, sometimes for no reason. I don't call people much anymore. I sometimes scratch myself or bite myself. I often think about death or suicide but I always think about what would happen if my mom or friends find out. I spend most of my time in my room. I find myself craving more food, even when I'm not hungry so that's caused me to gain more weight. I am an insomniac and I wake up 1-4 times in the middle of the night, my mom often gets mad at me because when I wake up, I turn on the TV and watch till I fall asleep again. I also feel irritable in the morning and sometimes snap at my mom for no reason it seems. When I told her... I told my mom I might be depressed and she told me to bring down my laptop and take a depression quiz. When I took it she was also watching and almost guided me through the test, like when I tried to answer truthfully she'd say "No that's not right, you're not like that pick that one," so I didn't answer it truthfully. The next time I told her she said that If I do turn out positive for depression, it will go on my record then I'd have to have people follow me everywhere at school and when I receive a job and I won't be able to receive a good job because people don't want to hire a formerly(hopefully) depressed person. I nice of got annoyed at her answer and went to my room. I'm scared to bring it up again now because of what she might say. -Am I depressed? -How can I tell my mom -Any other advice? Please help, I don't know what to do.
19 Mar 2011, 11:39 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Help Me Please I Am Being Abuse By My Father?
Hello I am being abuse by my dad he calls me losers and bitches and whores and every types of name. He use to beat my mom but now they are divorce and she is married to some other greedy ex jailbird she met of the internet. I am from an African American background and I have been talking to this middle age Whiteman from Manchester who is in his 40s. We talk on the web cam and Skype every the time, sometimes even when my dad is acting crazy he sees me crying after the abuse has happened. I don’t have a college degree and I am working on an internship right now, so there are no funds for me to leave, my student aid for school has been taking a while and the only thing I have to survive on is food stamps. I want to be a Pharmacist and I am going to school for that and for design, I can’t afford every my class books right now and I am only taking one college class this semester. I have been really unhappy and I over eat and I weigh about 200 lb right now. I have always been the beautiful type of girl had never had problems finding a boyfriend, even when I was skinny I liked dating big guys because I am attractive to them. The guy I met on my web cam is also a bit chubby but more so than me and he is such a sweetheart to me, he has broken down crying a few times because he can't stand to look the abuse I go through with my dad. He has offered for me to arrive down to Manchester and stay with him an while I go to school and try to work also. So I have been looking at passports and work visa so hopefully after the hire on at this internship I can keep some of my money to be able to leave. I have been abuse so much that I don’t really like black men and don’t date them being that my dad is black. But the British guy has his on home and no one lives there but him and he got an extra room also. Even though he is older than me I have always been attracted to older white men even when I was a teenager and they attracted to me also. I don’t look like my dad he is ugly and very black and he is country, so he has a stupid ass mindset that the Whiteman takes everything away from the brother man. I know my family would flip out if they knew I was talking to an older Whiteman, because they are not as open minded as I am to dating outside my race. I have really felt in adore with this man, and I can look in his eyes and look he is concern. I have to do something quick my dad has treated to kill me if I don’t leave and he also treated to poison my food also. The births guy has my address in America I gave him for my safety o in case he doesn’t here from me he can tell the police about my dad. Also I have done recordings of him abusing me while on my computer but never recorded him saying he was going to kill me. He likes to toss stuff and break stuff in the home. I am sleeping on the floor in his living room because there is only on bedroom. I am so ashamed of my situation my best pal doesn’t even know or my coworkers or classmates don’t know either. My family knows how my dad is but they every live with low income and they only care about themselves. My dad has encouraged me to kill myself that it would be a lot off his hands if I did so and that he is ashamed that he can’t tell his coworkers good things about his kids like they do, like graduating and getting their master’s degree and buying a new car. I have nothing no car, no degree, no apartment, and no income except food stamps. I am afraid for my life every day and every the shelter s and abuse centers are filled up in my area. I have a appointment with a college counselor this week I just started. My grandma is just as abusive as my dad and told him not to let me back in the home. They are every wealthy people on my dad side of the family but only care about themselves, and they every don’t like my mom so I and my sisters are left out from luxuries like cars for graduations and wedding gifts. My grandparent basically disowns us because of the resentment toward my mom. I can’t stay at my mom’s place because her husband doesn’t want anyone there, plus he doesn’t even tae care of his possess kids. I have never experience so much adore from my possess race like I have this British guy and it nice of hurts. I have always been put down and made fun of by other African American people. So it’s like I feel I don’t really fit in with being black. I don’t act ghetto and I am a very friendly and respectful person in public. I wish I could tell my intern supervisor what is going on she will have to look how the budget is next month for me to be able to receive hired. I want to tell her that I am in a life or death situation and need to make some money so I can receive out not just keep volunteering. My dad is a hoarder also and the place is not livable I have to keep a computer by my side because it is need for my design degree and artwork. He has a gun in the home and he illegally smokes marijuana I want to be away from every t My dad is a hoarder also and the place is not livable I have to keep a computer by my side because it is need for my design degree and artwork. He has a gun in the home and he illegally smokes marijuana I want to be away from every the ignorant abusive family in my life and I want to go to Manchester England and be with the British guy. I do have feeling and sexual attraction towards him also. He wants me to finish school in America but has changed his mind and is too worried that my dada may hurt me and told me to enroll into the college up there. I already have enrolled into the college in England and soon as I start working I will keep up my money for a passport and visa and airplane ticket. I would never have thought I would try to date someone off the internet and I know this is a risk, but I have had guns pulled on me, robbed, date raped and abuse why not try to take the chance of living a better life. I have no intentions on coming back to America to visit my family they ha (cont). they have hurt me too much. I don’t want my future kids to be around ignorant racist ghetto people either I want them too experience a different life in another country. I just want to leave so bad I have no other choices right now but the United Kingdom, none of my family members will take me in. I basically have no family. I am so worried (cont). they have hurt me too much. I don’t want my future kids to be around ignorant racist ghetto people either I want them too experience a different life in another country. I just want to leave so bad I have no other choices right now but the United Kingdom, none of my family members will take me in. I basically have no family. I am so worried
18 Oct 2011, 1:37 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: i previously asked about a cheating husband and now i have a plan. now what?
well not sure if any of the same people will look this or not, but i got a lot of good advise with my last question so here's another. i am planning on confronting him about what i found in his underwear at some point tonight after baby's in bed. i was going to do it last night but wanted to receive a chance to look in his phone first. so, last night i got up after he had been asleep for hours (of course i couldn't snooze) and read every his text messages. there weren't many so he's obviously been deleting most. evidently he forgot some though. he is planning on meeting a girl in a month. unhappy part it, i'm the one who gave them permission to talk! she's his ex-girl pal from high school supposedly just wanting to be friends. she is supposedly a lesbian that is married with a little girl! he showed me a picture of her and her girlfriend in their tux and wedding dress! so i figured, what's the hurt? she's in illinois we're in tennessee. i made sure when they talked i would make me and the baby heard though. guess she doesn't care. anyway.......my plan: confront him about his underwear and tell him if he ever cheats again, it's over. then look what he does in a month when they're supposed to meet. i'll hire an investigator if i have to. my question is, if he does meet her, what should i do? i am a stay at home mom with no car. i have access to the money but he would know if any went missing. how do i go about getting a lawyer and investigator? if i leave i have to receive full custody or him to have supervised visits. i have no doubt he will take off with her if he gets the chance if i leave. also, i know this sounds bad, but i'm afraid he might try to hurt somebody. he isn't abusive or anything, but he was in the army and won't talk about what happened there. what if he snaps or something? i don't think he would ever hurt us, but i didn't think he would ever cheat either.my parents nd my 3 young sisters live just 4 houses away. even if i leave with the baby, what about them? and how good are my chances of getting full custody with no job history college education? ok, obviously i need to put in every the details. about 9 months ago, i found condoms in his pocket after he had "been out with the guys." then i found 3 pairs of womans underwear in his trunk. then every the underwear he wore home from work was clean, but every pair he came home in from "being out with the guys" had smears on them. also sometimes the opening to his pants would be crusted. he had what appeared to be make up on his shirt also once. lets look....this is not the first time i've gotten into his phone. i once found a text from a lady saying "lick my ... not f my .....". also the lady he plans to meet wants to go to meet at a hotel and have dinner, and that she'll kiss his sore foot soon with a wink ;). if this isn't enough, i don't know what else to look for.
18 Mar 2011, 9:44 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: mk 1 Ford Escort for a wedding in Plymouth?
My partner is absolutly car mad and he recently seen his dream car ( a mk 1 Ford Escort) being hired in Plymouth for a wedding.. and now he has his heart set to hire one for our wedding.. we are in Plymouth and are getting married in Plymouth. There was'nt a contact number on the car for him to take down. We have searched many times on the internet but havent been successfull. Does anyone know of any places in Plymouth or close by were we can hire one? Thanks
17 Jul 2011, 2:11 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: I am a Legal Alien/Permanent Resident w/ a Conditional Green Card - Can I receive unemployment?
Hi! I want to start this off with the following: Please keep yourself the time to write something like "OMG you're not even American and now I have to pay you too through my taxes!!!". Thank you. Okay, my question. Last Year, I received my Conditional Permanent Residency through marriage. My husband was unemployed at that time, and we had a co-sponsor who is his sister. We lived with my mom-in-law until we both found a job, and moved out. I was working a temp position, and so does my husband at the moment. I got "laid off" (backstabber-ish, typical temp agency crap!!! the company didn't want to pay me the full salary which was WAY beyond the $12/hour I was making, and "free" benefits.When they realized I want to be hired on and kept asking they said good bye and got the next temp). My husband only makes ~ $360 a week after taxes. We don't have any luxury items, we don't even have a TV. The only "luxury" we have is his computer, and the internet. We don't even have enough furniture, only a sofa, bed and kitchen table from CL and some stuff I found on the curb. We have one car and minimal insurance on it, and live in a crappy neighborhood in Providence, RI. I don't want to receive any pity from you, I just want you to know that we're really living by the limit and don't have major expenses that we blow our money on. Now, my problem is.. Since the day I got laid off I applied to at least 20 jobs a day. I asked friends, I went to places and left my resume (very "annoying" to stores these days, as it seems), i applied online to everything I came across. I have three years of administrative experience and a college degree, but it seems like noone wants to even talk to me. Not even McDonalds. Not even Wal-Mart. There is noone that can help us, my mom is overseas and my husband's mom has 3 other (younger) kids to feed. We had an immigration lawyer when I received my GC ("wedding gift" from my mom), and I remember he said I can not, below any circumstances receive unemployment, or they will take the money out of my husband's sister's savings. Is this true? After every, I worked for almost a year, and paid my taxes like everyone else? I will keep applying to jobs as I do every day, may it be a cleaning job or a job I would actually adore to do (administrative).. I don't think I am "too good" to work at McD, or Taco Bell.. they just don't even want to hire me. Or talk to me. :( Please help me. I am beyond stressed out. If I can't find employment within the next week or so, I have no idea where we can go. It would be such a relief to be able to receive unemployment until I can find a new job (which hopefully will be very soon). :( Mh.. two different answers. That's nice of what I found online. Some people say I can, some say I can't/that it will affect my sponsor. Can someone please clarify? :(
17 Aug 2011, 7:42 pm | click here to view more
Voting Question: My husband is experiencing some major mental health problems and is refusing to provide for me and our child.?
We have been married for four years and have a two year old. The first year we got married, my husband lost four jobs in a row. He went from being a totally devoted, thoughtful, fun fiancee to a completely tuned-out, emotionally-disabled, self-absorbed, sexist jerk in a matter of weeks after the wedding. I should have known then that something wasn't right, but I just kept thinking that things would turn around. He wasn't always raging or crazy, just disconnected. I desperately wanted kids and after asking him to think about it for about a year after he finally got a job he seemed to be able to hold on to, he agreed that we should start our family. He also agreed that it would be best if I stayed home and raised our kids while he provided for the family. But now, our daughter is two and he's gotten much worse. Our counselor has said that he believes my husband has Narcissistic Personality Disorder or Borderline Personality Disorder. Our counselor told my husband that his "homework" before their next appointment is to schedule an appointment with a Psychiatrist. I highly doubt he will actually manage to complete that task. He doesn't think anything is wrong with him, even though he has been acting out in destructive behaviors for months now, including, stealing my wedding rings, car keys, journals, making a secret copy of the home key, hacking my email account, emailing my entire family breaking the news to them that I had moved my daughter and me out of our home for a break from the drama, threatened to remove me from our insurance policy, threatened to report for to CPS (for no reason whatsoever), etc. He's totally lost it. So, here is my question: How can I survive, provide for my little girl and myself and still stay at home with her while she is still so little? My heart hurts when I think of the pain my husband has ushered into our family, but my heart feels like it's being torn out of my chest when I picture dropping my little lady off at daycare to be raised be strangers every day. She's the joy of my world right now. I know that someday I will have to let her go off to preschool, kindergarten, 1st grade, college... But for now, she's still my baby and I definitely need more time with her before she grows up tomorrow. I have applied for gov't support and will be getting child support going asap. I'm a skilled knitter and frequently tutor private lessons and sell patterns online. I manage several websites that earn a little income. I work part time in a baby boutique where my daughter can arrive and play and stay with me. I am doing everything that I can manage to stay home with her and still earn a living. It's totally exhausting. If I put her in daycare, (since I don't have any relatives anywhere close by) and got a full time job, I'd have to quit doing every the other things I adore to do. My brother works for Microsoft and wants me to receive an admin job there. I think I'd shoot myself before sitting at a desk every day... Who'd cook? Who'd clean? Who'd kiss and snuggle my daughter? I just can't look that that would be a better scenario. Besides, I'm such an emotional wreck right now that I don't think I could fake my way through any interviews just yet. I recently had an interview for an SEO position with a local business, and the owner asked me what path I saw myself on since I have so many interests. I honestly teared up because I don't have any idea what path I'm on. It was SO embarrassing, but she still hired me. (It's more work from home!) My gut is telling me that right now, I just need to focus on taking care of myself emotionally with counseling and relax. I don't care if I have to live off of food stamps and child support for a few months while I regroup. Is that bad? I think my daughter deserves a glad, healthy mama. Not a miserable, absentee ghost of a mom who is too sleepy and stressed out to play on the weekends. And don't even receive me started fretting about how to pay for an attorney... Our system sucks. Will someone just please tell me that it's okay to NOT want a career? My job is being a mama and that's every I want to do. It's difficult work- why don't we receive paid for it?! After every, I might be raising the next President or Nobel Prize Winner. I want to do my best at my job of raising MY child. I know that the feminist movement told women that it was their RIGHT to be able to go back to work after having a child. But isn't it then also our RIGHT to pick NOT to? Other countries provide richly for parents. Ours is like survival of the most heartless. Push out a baby and pass them off to a stranger so you can jump back on the cog. I just want a peaceful, calm, steady life where I can tutor her about colors, numbers, and animals. Anyway, sorry this is long. Please be nice.
16 Oct 2011, 6:14 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Realistically, how much does a wedding cost? (UK)?
I'm planning on getting married next year. We are hoping for a civil ceremony and reception held in the same place (either a lovely hotel or barn, something like that). Realistically, how much are we looking at including flowers, dresses/suits, photographer, band/DJ, venue hire, wedding breakfasts etc. We are not going to hire cars and I'm going to try and make lots of things myself (decorations, invites) as I'm artistic. I also don't think i'll bother with hiring someone to do my hair and makeup. I'm really clueless. We've initially budgeted for £7,000 but I have a feeling it will be a lot more?
15 Jan 2012, 1:39 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Wondering if this job sounds like a scam?
I had posted a resume on Craigslist looking for a job and I've gotten quite a few obvious scams. Although, I received this. This mentions a "certified check." I'm a little sketchy about this but I'd like to know everyone's opinion does this look legit?? This was the e-mail I was sent. Good Day, I have received your message which is quite okay by me and i want you to know that the job i have to offer is a caregiving job and this is easy. My Sister will be coming from (Albany, NY) and she will be moving on 30th of january 2012. she is 77 Years of age. 140lbs and 5.8ft. She speaks English fluently.We really need you to be honest and trust worthy in this Position. The work basis/duties are below. - You are to be checking on My Sister at least 4 times in a week for proper caring and to know how well about her health. - You will be earning $400 weekly handling this job properly. - You will be driving her to hospital when she is needed for medical check up which should be at least once in a month and if you don't know how to steer, you will hire a car for her. -- Your working days will be Mon,Wed, Friday and Saturday.You will have to prescribe the convenient hrs during each of this days which will not affect your other regular work incase you have one as this will be a part time work for you and if you want to live with her in the home for other assistance there will be no problem. So kindly provide me with the requested information below so that we can ensure the housing agent receive her an apartment which will be more closer to your home and I wish about 6 miles will not be too far for you. Also we will be paying you the first week wages upfront via a Certified Check because you will help her to receive some medical tools like one touch basic machine,acu-check machine and test trips in any nearest pharmacy store around. So I want you to feed me back with the following details so that we can ensure you are ready for the work. 1. Full Name 2. Mailing Address, 3. City 4. State and Zip Code 5. Phone Number 6.Age, Sex and marital status. I will give you her living address once the rental agent find her a suitable home. Will be awaiting your email soonest and we can proceed as you can understand that the date is getting approach.
14 Jan 2012, 6:19 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Does anyone know any sports car hires in Glasgow?
I am looking for a Sports car to hire for the groom at his wedding which is local to Glasgow. Does anyone know of any.
13 Jan 2012, 10:22 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Does anyone actually believe the lie that US troops fight for our freedom?
Freedom itself was attacked this morning by a faceless coward, and freedom will be defended." ~ George W. Bush, September 11, 2001 We have heard it repeated loudly and continuously since 9/11 – the troops are defending our freedoms. This claim is made so often and by so many different segments of society that it has become another meaningless national dictum – like "God Bless America" or "In God We Trust." This cliché is actually quite insidious. It is used as a mantra to justify or excuse anything the U.S. military does. U.S. troops are engaged in unconstitutional, undeclared wars – but the troops are defending our freedoms. U.S. drone strikes killed civilians in Pakistan – but the troops are defending our freedoms. U.S. bombs landed on a wedding party in Afghanistan – but the troops are defending our freedoms. U.S. soldiers murdered Afghan civilians and kept some of their body parts – but the troops are defending our freedoms. U.S. helicopter pilots gunned down Iraqi civilians – but the troops are defending our freedoms. U.S. soldiers killed civilians for sport – but the troops are defending our freedoms. U.S. troops carelessly killed civilians and then covered it up – but the troops are defending our freedoms. But as I have pointed out many times in my articles on the military, and others like Jacob Hornberger of the Future of Freedom Foundation have been arguing for years, the troops are doing everything but defending our freedoms. In fact, the more the troops defend our freedoms by bombing, invading, and occupying other countries, the more enemies they make of the United States and the more our freedoms receive taken away in the name of "fighting terrorism" or "national security." Not in any particular order, and in varying degrees of significance, here are some freedoms I wish the military were defending: The freedom to fly without being sexually violated. The freedom to purchase a gun without a waiting period. The freedom to grow, sell, and smoke marijuana. The freedom to sell goods and services for whatever amount a buyer is willing to pay. The freedom to make more than six withdrawals from one’s savings account each month. The freedom to drink alcohol as a legal, voting adult below twenty-one years of age. The freedom to purchase Sudafed over the counter. The freedom to gamble without government approval. The freedom to deposit more than $10,000 in a bank account without government scrutiny. The freedom to not be stopped at a checkpoint and have one’s car searched without a warrant. The freedom to sell any good or offer any service on Craigslist. The freedom to fill in a "wetland" on one’s possess property. The freedom to clip someone’s hair for money without a license. The freedom to home-brew over 100 gallons of beer per year. The freedom to advertise tobacco products on television. The freedom to smoke Cuban cigars. The freedom to not wear a seatbelt. The freedom to be secure in our persons, houses, papers, and effects, against unreasonable searches and seizures. The freedom to keep the fruits of one’s labor. The freedom of an employer and an employee to negotiate for any wage. The freedom to discriminate against anyone for any reason. The freedom to videotape the police in public. The freedom of businesses to hire and flame whomever they pick. The freedom to not be brutalized by the police. The freedom to not be arrested for victimless crimes. The freedom to sell raw milk. The freedom to not have one’s child subject to unnecessary vaccinations. The freedom to not have one’s child unjustly taken by Child Protective Services. The freedom to not be subject to the Patriot Act. The freedom for kids to set up neighborhood lemonade stands. The freedom to not have every facet of business and society regulated. The freedom to stay in one’s home during a hurricane. The freedom to not have our e-mail and phone conversations monitored. The freedom to travel to and trade with any country. The freedom to be left alone. Certainly there are hundreds of things that could be added. We no longer live in a free country. We are increasingly living in a police state, a warfare state, and a national security state. Our freedom is not absolute. The only reason the United States is still considered "the land of the free and the home of the brave" is because we are relatively free, with the degree of freedom varying depending on which country America is compared to. why do people have to risk their lives if I stay in a hurricane. I'm not asking or expecting or wanting them too. I made the decision myself and if I suffer for it there is no one to blame but me. Of course I wouldn't make my family stay. That would be dictatorial like our government and those who serve its will.
12 Nov 2011, 10:16 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: How do we deal with guests expecting alcohol at our wedding?
It seems like our guests are expecting an open bar at our 4-hour long wedding reception and I am getting pissed off! Because of the high costs, we have decided to only serve water, juice, soda, wine and champagne for the toast. Today, my fiance bumped into his aunt. She casually mentioned to him that they hired a car service to take them to the wedding reception because they don't want to drink and steer. They live about 4 hours away by car. My fiance told her, "Well, that won't be necessary because the only alcohol we're serving is wine and champage." She was shocked and replied, "Are you serious?! I guess we're going to have to pack the car up with some beer then." HUH?! First of every, I doubt our venue is going to allow any outside alcohol. Secondly, I don't want any drunks ruining our special day. Lastly, since when does alcohol have to be a REQUIREMENT?! My parents don't drink and people should respect our choice. How do we deal? Additional note - We are having the ceremony at the same location. Therefore, it will be more like a 3 hour reception. For those of you who are saying to make it known that there will be no alcohol, no can do. The invitations were sent out almost 2 months ago AND there will be alcohol. Just less of what the guests may expect.
12 May 2011, 3:43 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: How do I take this matter to court? a lifetime of domestic woes?
Now this is my story- My dad's family was well known for being dirty and bad people....my mom was unwittingly married by my grandparents to my dad in an arranged marriage. My dad worked in Australia but he came back to Pakistan for the wedding. My dad's family was lavishly mean to my mom and out of jealousy of the fact that my mom was going to migrate to Australia, my paternal uncle tried to murder me and my mom when I was a year old[ I was born in Australia but when I was 1 years old we went to Pakistan for a visit] with a pistol. My dad took that pistol away and sent me and my mom away to my maaternal relatives out of fear that my mom's family might lodge an FIR AGAINST HIS BROTHER mY mom CHOSE NOT TO TAKE ANY LEGAL ACTIONS FOR MY SAKE as she knew my dad would divorce her if we tried to take the matter to court and also because Pakistani police are corrupt. I had two sisters and a brother here in Australia later on after we came back here. Life then became a regular conflict showdown between my parents as my dad would spend the nights out and not return till morning and often he did not give us the money we needed...he was miserly on our spending and life went that way as he did not believe in the importance of wife and kids as he was taught to believe that his parents and siblings were more important, thus he spent more on them. Often my dad would abandon us before coming back again. My dad also cheated Centrelink [he works as a cab driver/ hire car driver] to receive more money by showing a untrue income. When I was 9 we went on a 6 month visit to Pakistan[ not including my dad] and our dad did not send any maintenance money and even made another copy of my mum's bank card to receive every of the centrelink money for himself before trying to prevent us from returning to Australia. He always wanted to have a second wife and would often chat to young women and spend nights out. When I was 12 we moved from Harris Park to Auburn because of my high school and my dad would often not pay the bills, my fees[ for a private school] and would not give the rent. My dad would battle my mum to go and ask for money from family friends or our relatives in Pakistan or the UK[ by phone]or he would want to take my mum's bank card to withdraw the fortnightly centrelink money, occasionally slapping or pushing my mum in these fights. Our fridge and washing machine was malfunctioning and we had to use them for 10-15 years before getting a new one after AGES. Me and my siblings had to wait months or even years to receive little things we wanted. Often our gas, electricity or water connections would be clip or our landlord would send us termination notices because of our dad's constant lateness in paying these bills.[ he would often use the government benefits to pay off these bills] We lived a very miserly life in comparison to other immigrant Pakistanis. Almost miserable. My dad would often try to force my mom out of the home during fights over money, even threatening a divorce a couple of times. He would often try to toss me out of the home and he would always say he would marry me to a cunning girl that I did not want to marry. My mom would always say that she only stays with my dad for our sake. HENEVER MY dad WOULD TRY TO ABANDON US MY mom WOULD START TALKING ABOUT GETING A SEWING JOB OR ME AND MY SISTER WORKING AT mACCAS TOO SUPPORT OUR FAMILY IN CASe he did walk out. In the end we were kicked out of our home by a court order and we moved into a new home. My dad did improve his mood at times but at other times he resumed his mad mode with us kids and our mum. My dad's family would often ask my dad for money and my dad would send it, even though it should have been spent on us. My dad used to behave with a double face by denying such stuff to us and our mum but when the truth would emerge he would react angrily. There was even a time he fought with my sister and it lasted for a week. My dad has never felt sorry for anything and even though he knws a ot of the time that he is wrong he simply doesn't care and he often tries to tutor my siblings that we should take our brothers and sisters side even if they are wrong and another one of his teachings is that we must beat someone else up but never receive beaten and once we beat someone up we have to lie to protect our innocence and if we don't lie to protect our honour we will be punished at home too. My dad has the least respect for women possible and expects me o be like 'his arm'. But I don't want anything to do with him, or he'll use my earnings and receive me married to someone and kick me out of the home. Now after 18 years of life like this, I want to take my life problems to court. Could someone please advise me which issue I should best sue my dad on, how o prove my paternal uncle's murder attempt and if there is any way that I can prove every or some of this
12 Jan 2012, 5:14 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Advice, maybe a little ventilation?
Hello, every.. I was wondering if anyone out here has had (or know someone who has had) a similar experience to what I am experiencing with my immediate family dynamic. My brother is a 23-year old marketing grad (October of 2010), who is.. well.. a loser.. and my family praises him for being such Before I start, please read on the background why I refer to him as such.. For the tenure of his undergrad career, he did not once hold a job - summer, in-course, or otherwise. He also did not take a student loan upon himself, and relied entirely on the generosity of my parents to pay for his education (living away from home, so a total of $85,000). He only started working in August of 2010, when my grandfather's pal got him a position at my hometown (pop 50,000) Wal-Mart as a buggy pusher. He retained this position until February of 2011, when he moved to Toronto with myself and my fiance to help him find a job in his chosen field, as my hometown has little opportunity. My fiance is a chemical engineer, and I work as an accountant, and we would leave every morning to him playing video games... and return to him doing the same. In a month, he probably sent 3 resumes, and then proclaimed that 'nobody is hiring'. This incensed my fiance, and he forwarded him 13 entry level positions the following morning, every the while watching the morning edition of Sportscentre. So after a month of this, and watching him eat us out of food (he came to Toronto weighing ~250 with a 44" waist), and not really doing anything other than play video games, every three of my grandparents fell sick, so he returned home, and helped out by driving them around to their appointments, or placeholding while one or the other was in hospital.. and he was praised like a hero.. but he did not interact with them - he would go over, and play his nintendo DS, and after he got bored of that, he purchased a rocket stick, so that he can access the internet.. and he completely negated my grandparents, to the point that when my fiance and I did fly in for a weekend to pop in for a visit, my grandfather had to lose his temper at my brother and yelled at him to put his computer down, that he had not seen his face for 2 days, and that we flew in to talk, not to face the back of a laptop. So this was every between March and April, and my (retired) dad said in early May that my brother is going to stay.. that there is no point in him trying to find work in Toronto, and that they need him there to steer my grandparents to their respective appointments.. He got his old job back at the Wal-Mart, and he is at 280 lbs, and his waist is nearing 50".. he is not looking for work because my grandparents need their appointments filled (apparently until they die), he works 20 hrs/week, and when he's not working, he's playing video games. He has very few friends, and the ones he has have lives, jobs, and girlfriends.. So that is why I make the statement he's a loser.. My parents, in turn, praise him for being there.. they seem to forget that people age, and people die.. and that by keeping him away from finding a stable job is incredibly detrimental to his future. I passed my first car down to him, and he drove it into the ground (most likely because he did not change the oil on it since October of last year), so they bought him a new Nissan Sentra (Wal-Mart is a 20 minute bike ride away, and transit would take him there). They scold me for being rebellious, ungrateful (they paid for my tuition for my first 2 years, and my wedding.. a combined $25,000) for leaving home.. basically, for doing what's expected from society.. I think? I mean, I'm 25, have a secure job, a fiance who is successful in his possess right, I have a home, I have savings.. and they criticize me for everything, from my political stance, to my choice of furnishings... and if I resist, I receive blasted... my brother doesn't have conversations with me, he just tries to dig at me at every opportunity, and reminds me of when I beat him up when he was 10.. Am I justified in feeling slighted, or am I just being ungrateful? Thanks for reading my rant...
11 Jun 2011, 12:01 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: help to get rid of gf's friend and would you stay home and have a maid if you can?
I earn $ 800,000 per year. my girlfriend earns $60,000 per year. So when we receive married, I would like her to stay home-no need for her to go to work when I can spend for both of us comfortably and also because she has to wake up at 5am on workdays and she returns home around 7pm so she does not like her job much and I hate to look her so sleepy- She just holds on to it because she want the money to live (her dad is retired, her mom is a housewife she is the only child) we have discussed this and she would like to stay home too(I ll be more than glad to spend for her parents. very nice, loving couple just like my parents) I want to hire a maid to do washing, cleaning etc .at 1st she didn't agree saying she will be home so she can do the housework. But after making her understand that I would like her to relax and like life and do what she likes instead of chores like washing dishes, clothes and sweeping floors she agreed.(I do feel bad about the majority who have to do what they don't like and I do give for charities and if you like washing dishes,im sorry if im offending you its just that my gf doesn't like those) She won't be bored at home. she already has a great friendship with my two dogs. she ll take them to walks, do volunteer work at the local animal shelter and the elderly home, cook and bake, do gardening work, read, visit her parents who are nearby, go to gym etc those are what she loves to do. The problem is, one of her co workers feeds her opinions to my gf and makes it very difficult for my gf to work. She s got 3 close friends and 2 are glad that she is getting a loving husband and a comfy life but the other one seems very jealous from what I hear. Seems she keeps saying my girlfriend that I cheat and I do these things for her out of guilt or im trying to buy her adore or what happens if we receive divorced or she says my girlfriend is a gold digger. And when she goes home this lady texts my gf saying these things! I ve seen her texts. when we are out on a date, she ll text nonstop! well, I wouldn't ever cheat on her, I ve being in adore with her for 8 years and no other lady interests me, I don't want to buy her adore because she loves me enough already and im not insecure in anyway (looks, age, sexual performance etc) and we will not be divorced because I ll be crazy to divorce a lady like her and she wont want to divorce me because she loves me very much. My girlfriend is not a gold digger. She is an educated and simple lady who didn't even know what I earn what car I use etc when she fell in adore with me. This pal seems jealous to me because she wouldn't let go even though my gf explained everything to her. So my questions are, if you are a man, if you earned what I earn you would like her to stay home and you ll provide her every comfort which you can afford right? Wrong? If you are a lady and if you are in the position of my gf ( tiring job, do have lots of things to do at home, husband want to give you a comfy life) you will stay home and would agree to have a maid right? Wrong? (those two questions are asked so that I can show the answers to my gf.i know she is bothered. she is a mild mannered crowd pleaser type of lady who wants to please everyone while I am "who gives a phuck" type when I know im doing the correct thing) Some wealthy celebrities like actors, sportsmen, singers, directors etc have housewives and they also have lots of maids, those wives often receive gifts worth millions too. so this pal of my gf is ok with them, but not with us. so don't you think that shows how jealous she is? How do we deal with this paranoid lady? I don't want her to be bothering my gf.these are the months we should use to plan our wedding.
11 Jan 2012, 3:44 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: What right does Islam give me? ca i sue my father?
Ok, now this is my story- My dad's family was well known for being taveez[black magic] practising people and bad people....my mom was unwittingly married by my grandparents to my dad in an arranged marriage. My dad worked in Australia but he came back to Pakistan for the wedding. My dad's family was lavishly mean to my mom and her family, even practising blackmagic on thm and preventing their coming over and breaking off every relations with them. They practised taveez on my mom and a week later after the wedding they accused my mom and her family of being the ta'veez practitoners and out of jealousy of the fact that my mom was going to migrate to Australia, my paternal uncle tried to murder me and my mom when I was a year old[ I was born in Australia but when I was 1 years old we went to Pakistan for a visit] with a pistol. My dad took that pistol away and sent me and my mom away to my maaternal relatives out of fear that my mom's family might lodge an FIR AGAINST HIS BROTHER mY mom CHOSE NOT TO TAKE ANY LEGAL ACTIONS FOR MY SAKE as she knew my dad would divorce her if we tried to take the matter to court and also because Pakistani police are corrupt. I had two sisters and a brother here in Australia later on after we came back here. My maternal aunt was also married offg to a similar family but thanks to my paternal ants' meddling my maternal aunt was given a divorce byy her mean husband. My dad's family regularly practised black magic on us, my mum finding out about this regularly after seeing dreams of them doing so, even years later as they wanted us out of our dad's life. Life then became a regular conflict showdown between my parents as my dad would spend the nights out and not return till morning and often he did not give us the money we needed...he was miserly on our spending and life went that way as he did not believe in the importance of wife and kids as he was taught to believe that his parents and siblings were more important, thus he spent more on them. Often my dad would abandon us before coming back again. My dad also cheated Centrelink [he works as a cab driver/ hire car driver] to receive more money by showing a untrue income. When I was 9 we went on a 6 month visit to Pakistan[ not including my dad] and our dad did not send any maintenance money and even made another copy of my mum's bank card to receive every of the centrelink money for himself before trying to prevent us from returning to Australia. He always wanted to have a second wife and would often chat to young women and spend nights out. When I was 12 we moved from Harris Park to Auburn because of my high school and my dad would often not pay the bills, my fees[ for a private school] and would not give the rent. My dad would battle my mum to go and ask for money from family friends or our relatives in Pakistan or the UK[ by phone]or he would want to take my mum's bank card to withdraw the fortnightly centrelink money, occasionally slapping or pushing my mum in these fights. Our fridge and washing machine was malfunctioning and we had to use them for 10-15 years before getting a new one after AGES. Me and my siblings had to wait months or even years to receive little things we wanted. Often our gas, electricity or water connections would be clip or our landlord would send us termination notices because of our dad's constant lateness in paying these bills.[ he would often use the government benefits to pay off these bills] We lived a very miserly life in comparison to other immigrant Pakistanis. Almost miserable. My dad would often try to force my mom out of the home during fights over money, even threatening a divorce a couple of times. He would often try to toss me out of the home and he would always say he would marry me to a cunning girl that I did not want to marry. My mom would always say that she only stays with my dad for our sake. HENEVER MY dad WOULD TRY TO ABANDON US MY mom WOULD START TALKING ABOUT GETING A SEWING JOB OR ME AND MY SISTER WORKING AT mACCAS TOO SUPPORT OUR FAMILY IN CASe he did walk out. In the end we were kicked out of our home by a court order and we moved into a new home. My dad did improve his mood at times but at other times he resumed his mad mode with us kids and our mum. My dad's family would often ask my dad for money and my dad would send it, even though it should have been spent on us. My dad used to behave with a double face by denying such stuff to us and our mum but when the truth would emerge he would react angrily. There was even a time he fought with my sister and it lasted for a week.Now after 18 years of life like this, I want to take my life problems to court. Could someone please advise me which issue I should best sue my dad on, how to prove my paternal uncle's murder attempt and if there is any way that I can prove every or some of this in court and have a sentence impos my question was if Islam gives a son the right to sue his dad in cout for neglect and at times violent attitude? please muslims only answer here
11 Jan 2012, 10:55 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Wedding invite we cant decide if myself or husband should go?
My niece has invited myself husband and two teenagers to her wedding but this would mean hiring a car an outfit each and putting dog in kennel so around 800 pound if 3 of us go we will not need to hire a car so cheaper and 1 of us can stay home to look after dog Question should I go or my husbad who is the brides uncle brother to mom of bride .
11 Apr 2011, 5:20 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: My dog is aggressive - Please help!?
We rescued two dogs from an animal shelter 3 weeks ago. One of them is doing very well and is the sweetest dog in the world. The other, Bullet, a mix that they told us was part Australian Shepherd (although we have our doubts), has become very aggressive. He was fine right when we got him up until we took him to the vet (that same day) and they had to put a muzzle on him because of growling and snarling. We brought him home and he was aggressive when asked to receive out of the car or when trying to guide him without a leash. We kept him outside for the first week because we were afraid of how he would act with our male dachshund and 4 cats, but he has since been living inside and doing ok with the other animals. With people it is a different story. We think it's because he is afraid. At first he was very reluctant to go outside as it seemed he was scared of being left out there. Now he will go outside but barks very loudly to arrive in within the first 2 minutes. If you ever do anything to him that would make him think you are going to pick him up, he gets very tense and growls ferociously. It is easy to calm him down by petting his nose, which he loves. The worst thing to do to him, however, is try to control him and tell him where to go if he objects. When he wasn't allowed inside, he would try to run in and I would grab him, which really infuriated him. I was sure he would bite me one day, but he never has. If he jumps on the bed, it is impossible to force him down, as he gives very clear warnings that if you move him he will bite. The other day I left him at my dads to look if he could take off some of the pressure of having this dog around. Within the first four hours of being there, Bullet tried to run out the front door and my dad reached down to grab his collar and he got bit pretty bad. Needless to say the dog is back with me and I am freaking out more now than ever. When I am being gentle and non threatening with him, he is actually very nice. He will even let me roll him on his back to scratch his belly. He loves people, but I think he is afraid of us. We have tried to gain his trust but we definitely don't look any improvements. I have been walking him using dog walking methods I learned from a book written by a trainer, and have been strict and respectful to him, while not allowing him to enter/leave the home or a room, or even eat before me. I cannot afford a trainer. These dogs were 2 of 5 that my fiancee and I rescued from a Miami shelter that was going to be putting the dogs to snooze because of a possible distemper outbreak. We spent a lot of money on these dogs already, and with our wedding approaching it just isn't feasible to hire a trainer. What can we do? We are not going to take him back because he will probably be put to snooze. Please help. http://a1.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc6/197541_879523091698_18701336_44775823_1037912_n.jpg He always follows me around the home, it's weird. Even when I feed him, if I leave the room, he follows me. But when he sees that I turn around and head towards his food he guns it and cuts me off and starts chowing down.
11 Apr 2011, 3:16 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: Wedding cars Glasgow help?
Hi so my mums getting wed and I'm going to receive the cars but every these prices and sites are doing my head in does any one know of some one who hires wedding cars in Glasgow for a good price that suits every cheers
10 May 2011, 7:08 am | click here to view more
Resolved Question: afraid I might loose my fiancee?
OKay my fiancee and i have been toghther for 4 years. He has a daughter of five that i have been mom too. He paid for most of my schooling (15,000). and now that i am done we live in a 2bedroom apt and he pays for rent while i pay for car payment, insurance, phone and internet and groceries, cell bills etc. it works out that we pay about the same. but i am worried, i have 2 jobs in the industry i graduated from, but i haven't had any hours since December. I have tried applying at so many jobs in every industries, and have gotten nothing. I feel bad since i have reverted to living off of disability (no not for an injury) and still pay my side of things, but i am not really helping saving for the wedding or future home. I also have quit smoking AND toking and have been feeling really depressed the past while. while my fiancee has been supportive telling me i will receive hours which i haven't i feel like he is reaching his patience peak. Im at home every day applying everywhere, and am cleaning the home and making sure dinner is on the table when he comes home and a massage when he gets home. or i am out applying at jobs, receive grocery or picking up the baby girl. i feel like i am not doing enough and im not sure what to do? I really am trying but right now alot of places arent hiring. IM am getting frustrated and worried that my fiancee will leave me. He hasn't said it, but in my past men have left me for less. Am i being overly paranoid? and i comparing him too much to my past bf/gfs? I dont want him to leave me or be unhappy with me... men how would you feel if you were in said situation? what can i do to make my burden less?
10 Feb 2011, 1:01 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: can anyone please help me, i would really love to hire a general lee for mine and my partners wedding car does?
anyone know of someone who could possibly help me with this uk only thanx every x the general lee is the car off the dukes of hazzard x
1 Mar 2011, 5:38 pm | click here to view more
Resolved Question: I need a way to make money this summer?
I am 17 and will be getting my license within a month. The deal that my dad made with my three brothers and I when my oldest brother started driving was that he would make sure we had a car, and he would pay the insurance, but we have to pay gas. We also have to pay the fine on any tickets we receive, and if the insurance rises, we have to pay the difference between what the insurance is and what it was (incentive to steer safely). However, I have a completely packed schedule for the next half year (approximately). I've got a week-long family vacation, and after that, I have two weeks of band camp where I have to tutor underclassmen. Once band starts, it consumes my life. I have practice Tuesdays and Thursdays until 6 to start with. As competition season approaches, we have it Tues-Thurs until 6:30. Fridays we perform at football games, and Saturday we compete, so Monday and Sundays are the only days I have off once school starts. With that being said, I'd have such a limited amount of time that I could spend on work that I doubt any place would hire me, especially since I still would like to have time to spend with my boyfriend. The final result is that I cannot go for a job until the second semester of my senior year. I really don't want my dad to have to pay my gas until then, even if it does only take my car about $40 to fill completely. He already pays every the other car bills, and every the home bills. Plus, I'd like to be able to start putting money back in the bank. My boyfriend and I, although not engaged YET, do plan on having a future together. We want to be married in 2014, and I'd like to have plenty of time to keep. I'm trying to figure out some gig I could take on to make enough money to put gas in my car and put a little back for my wedding, even if it's only $20 or $30 a week, until I can receive a steady, regular job. I'm good at music, and I adore animals and kids. If I were to give music lessons to kids, or babysit for someone, how much should I charge?
1 Jun 2011, 4:26 pm | click here to view more